Your word "aggressive" "throw in water" are typically mocking what you're doing to me, and based in racism. Your father, Scott Swift, is in police custody in Australia, for other reasons described, showing elements of his racism and misogyny and proving who you are as a person, who you are like, and your values and emotional capacity; a mental checkup is warranted to prove psychopathy, in both parties.
This is not to deflect, or blame-shift, and the tiredness and the rapes, and the punch was felt across the pond.